Today is precious, hug someone you love.

It's been two weeks. Time hasn't made sense of it. Sadness, lots of it. Confusion, concern, empathy and a bit of anger.
Jane was diagnosed with breast cancer two years ago. She fought hard, only then to battle brain, lymph node, and liver cancer. Such a huge battle, met with incredible strength and inspirational optimism. She died on Valentines day, 33 years old, leaving behind a very loved husband, a 3 year old daughter and 6 year old son, lots of friends and family.
We have known each other for 20 years, since grade 9. Life has taken us around the world, welcomed moves, partners and children. A constant has been our friendship. Sometimes time brings distance or a disconnection. But Jane and I always enjoyed each others company, we could laugh over a glass of wine and the time that had past slipped away.
I think it was her spontaneity and her ability to be in the moment that I loved most. Whether it was a spur of the moment road trip, an impromptu party, making the kids costumes out of swimming towels or a surprise visit, she could be in the moment.This was a trait that often got us in a lot of trouble growing up....the skipping class, dying our hair in the mall bathrooms, organizing a grievance meeting with the principle....but it was a trait that served in well the last two years.
I know that Jane is riding on one of the elephants she so dearly loved, enjoying the splendor, peace and comfort of life after death. It is her family and our hearts that are left with incredible memories and sad hearts.
She appreciated each moment- all of them. She found the fun, the joy and the love in each. When she got sick, she began leaving a saying on everything;
Today is precious, hug someone you love.